23-year-old earning $2,060 a month pays parents $1,200 to live at home, considers moving out, but they decide to charge her even more: ‘I still feel like I’m being treated like a child’

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A young woman feels overwhelmed while figuring out how to afford moving out.
I'm 23 and currently living with my parents, and I'm honestly at the point where I really want to move out.
Right now, I pay my parents $1,200 a month to live here. On top of that, I pay my own car insurance, my phone bill, and I buy and make dinner for everyone in the house twice a week. So I'm already contributing a pretty significant amount financially.
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Now they want to raise my rent, and that's what has really pushed me to start seriously thinking about moving out.
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The problem is that I don't have much saved. I have around $300 right now, so I know moving out immediately would be financially risky. I'd have to come up with a
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deposit, first month's rent, utilities, moving expenses, and still have enough left over for emergencies.
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But at the same time, I'm struggling with the idea of continuing to pay even more money to live with my parents when I still feel like I have
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very little freedom. I'm 23, I work, I pay my bills, and I contribute to the household, but I still feel like I'm being treated like a child.
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It's gotten to the point where I keep thinking, if I'm going to be paying this much anyway, why wouldn't I put that money toward my own place and actually have independence?
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I'm not saying I shouldn't contribute to the household. I completely understand that living with your parents doesn't mean you get to live for free. I'm just trying to figure
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A young woman pays $1,200 in monthly rent to her parents while considering putting that towards a place of her own.
out if I'm being unreasonable for feeling like there comes a point where paying this much makes more sense toward my own apartment.
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Would you stay, deal with the situation, and save as much as possible before moving out? Or would you start making plans to leave, even if it meant things were financially tight for a while?
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I'd really appreciate honest opinions, especially from people who have been in a similar situation.
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Edit: I work 40hr a week at my main job my monthly take home from that is 2,060 give or take if I get overtime or not and I sometimes nanny on my days off and I make between $50 to $200 depending on who I'm babysitting and for how long.
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A 23-year-old worries about her finances as her parents raise her rent to live at home.
telchacsusan Look at a shared apartment to begin with.
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did_i_or_didnt_i $1200 is landlord prices, they probably act like they're doing you a favour when really they're taking advantage just like all the other landlords They probably want you to move out. Save up and do it
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FormalWeb7094 One of my adult children lives with me and my husband, we don't charge him anything, he's supposed to be saving to move out. OP, I'm shocked that your parents are charging you so much, it's time to move out.
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J_Case Sounds like they want you to move out.
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Sadivimala Find a roommate and move out. That's what they are hinting you.
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Revolutionary-Fan235 If your parents are trying to push you out, they might consider moving the process along by helping you with the deposit and the associated costs of moving.
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Kaleria84 Move out with a roommate if you can. Around here, it's about $1,400/mo for a two bedroom apartment then about $1,200/mo for everything else; utilities, Internet, phone, insurance, food, car payment, car insurance, gas.
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kstargate-425 Save up abd skip out on their last month payment. $1200 a month is ridiculous for one bedroom, no personal living space etc. Its time to go
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